Monday, June 27, 2011

Beyoncé, Libya and Viagra

Screen shots (mine) from Beyoncé's new music video, (Girls) Run the World



Today I'm taking a break from nail polish tutorials, new purchases and outfit posts. Something has been weighing on my mind lately, and I'm angry. Is anger the right word? I feel helpless. I don't know which I feel more: anger or helplessness.

In Libya, a land where a woman's identity is largely judged by her sexual purity, rape is not only a personal nightmare (as it would be for all of us), but also a public shame. The way some families are responding to this shame, is through honor killings: Killing their family member who has been raped. Some women are pregnant.

With rumors of Viagra shipments, rape has become a weapon of war. This is a genocide that is being facilitated from the most unlikely place: the victim's home.

I'm angry. This makes me sick. I don't usually try to hold on to my anger. However for this I am not willing to let go of it. If it is my anger that has to keep me up at night, and drag me out of bed the next morning, so be it. I'm not going to sit here behind my computer, reading little snippets of news that pops up on my iGoogle homepage, and simply post to Facebook with "#smh" above it.

Understandably, women will often try to hide their rape from their families. However, if they are pregnant...






 Today dear readers, I am asking for your help. From my experiences in networking, I have seen time and time again the theory of 6 degrees of separation play true. If any of you know someone in Libya, or of someone who has ties to Libya, and would be willing to let me get into contact with them, would you please pass along their info? 
Also, I am trying to get a hold of as many birth control/Plan B/Emergency Contraception as possible. If any of you would like to donate what you can, I would be grateful. Right now I am working on getting in touch with as many emergency relief organizations as possible, and to get these medications into the hands of the victims. 


So why Beyoncé? I have nothing against her, her music, or this song. But rather, these screen shots are here only to pose the question, in the case of these victims of rape and honor killings, who runs their world?
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13 comments:

Jade Rat said...

I read the whole post & first; I'm happy to see bloggers like you pay attention to this kind of news instead of only being materialistic. Great initiative.

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Courtney Erin said...

I'm so glad that someone else is as righteously angry about this as I am (and as any sane person should be).

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Bonnie said...

I hate reading about this. It's so sad. :(

P.S. I can't stand Beyonce. Her thighs scare me. I feel sorry for Jay-Z. I bet she crushes him.

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Jill said...

This is so sad and upsetting. How could families kill other family members after they were raped? It's horrible. Keep us updated on what you are doing to help.

Jennifer Fabulous said...

It always breaks my heart to read about these cases. I know there are several countries in Africa as well where this is an issue. A woman is raped and it "dishonors" the entire village, especially the family.

I guess it's especially shocking for us to read about it, being from such a progressive and modern society.

(Although, we still are facing our own issues. I just read an article on CNN about how the editor of that American reporter gang raped in Egypt had said it was HER fault. Ummmm...so yeah, we have a long way to go here too).

I wish I knew someone with ties to Libya. I'll keep my eyes and ears open, sweetie! xoxo

Thanks for such an eye-opening post.

Movies on my Mind said...

Thanks for the sweet comment you left on my blog Amber.

I'm not surprised by the report on rape victims becoming fatally victimised by the powers that be. I saw a movie called THE STONING OF SORAYA M which is a brutal but hugely moving depiction of honour killings in Iran.

Beyoncé is soooo dull. Saw her Glastonbury set over the weekend and it put me to sleep. It was like a crass Las Vegas show. Totally not what us Brits like from our festivals.

They may as well get Siegfried & Roy to headline Glastonbury next year.

olivias-pizzaz said...

It is actually horrible isn't it! I feel the same thing of helplessness...what can we should we do? I really really am glad you have posted about this!! It needs to be more recognized!

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Chic 'n Cheap Living said...

What a tragic story and unfortunately one that keeps happening.
We should do something to help!

xoxo,
Chic 'n Cheap Living

Chic 'n Cheap Living said...

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Anonymous said...

thank you